Back in October of 2018 I left Facebook for good. There were
two reasons: (1) The first was simply that it had become a professional
battleground, with a group of so-called evidence-based chiropractors arguing
with everyone who held ideas and beliefs different from the ones they held.
These should normally have been my allies, but I found myself increasingly at
odds with many members because of how they interpreted literature, used
information and attacked those with whom they disagreed. In fact, I had been
treated worse by some of the members of this group than I ever had with
individuals with whom I have profound disagreements. Their moral righteousness and
unyielding rectitude were tiring in the extreme; there was always a
justification for anything they said or did. In fact, they are simply a fandom,
allowing only those people who already agree with them to post and cutting off
dissident voices, to the point of requiring what amounts of a loyalty oath to
simply post on the group page. (2) The loss of my granddaughter was a profound
loss, whose impact will never lessen. At the time that Beatrix was on life
support, I went through all the stages of grief that Kubler-Ross identifies.
One is bargaining. In this, my emotional side warred with my intellectual side
and I felt that if I could just think good thoughts and avoid negativity it
would somehow help Bea. This is not rational, and I would not change it for
the world. After that loss, I simply felt that the increasing negativity of
Facebook contributed nothing to the world and I would do my part to stop adding
any additional negativity to the world. This is outside all the issues that FB
already faces with data privacy, information sharing and so on. I do not miss
it.
I maintained my twitter account. Twitter is not a whole lot
better but I can control whose feeds I get- a small number of friends and
celebrities and comic-book artists I like, and I rarely post comments myself.
But I still need an outlet for my ideas and thoughts. So, I am resurrecting
this blog to use it as a personal means of writing about those things that matter
to me.
Please consider this an introduction to my writing. Looking
forward to sharing my thoughts!
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Happy to be able to follow your thoughts, feelings and ponderings. I only am back on FB to help guide my group of almost ten thousand members when (not if) we depart to a non profit platform. I am sad that the Chiros became mean to one another as that serves no purpose! Take care and keep sharing
ReplyDeleteThis is the best way to go. :-)
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